What it's All About:
This week on Goddess’ Vault, I'll explore the unique landscape of Pagan dating. Navigating the world of romance while practicing Paganism presents a particular set of challenges and opportunities. I'll discuss common experiences, misconceptions, and questions that arise when blending spirituality and relationships. From finding shared values to respecting individual practices, I'll delve into the complexities of Pagan dating and offer insights into fostering meaningful connections within the Pagan community.
Join me as I examine the intersection of love and spirituality, and explore how to create harmonious partnerships that honor both personal beliefs and shared desires.
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Spirit Guide of the Week:
Nehalennia
Dream Symbol:
Journey
Jug
Jumpsuit
Transcript:
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Welcome to another episode of the Music from the Goddess’ Vault Podcast. I am your host, Midnight Starr. You just heard the classic Pagan Girl by Emerald Rose. The topic of today’s episode is all about Pagan Dating. Before we begin, I wanted to share some brief news. Want to help choose a past episode to replay in September? Great! Cast your vote in the Choose an Old Episode Poll for Mabon poll. You can find the poll in the show notes or by scanning the QR code on our blog or Substack. Next up, there are two questionnaires for you to check out. I’m cooking up some amazing perks for my Patreon supporters, and I need your input! To help me create the coolest rewards, please share your ideas by clicking the Perks for the Show link in the show notes. Want to help guide the direction of Music from the Goddess Vault? Here's how! Click the link in the show notes to share your ideas for future episodes. Whether you're curious about Spirit Guides, dream symbols, or have a completely different show topic, let me know! You can share your thoughts on social media (Facebook, TikTok, Instagram, Blue Sky, Mastodon) or drop by my blog at goddessvault1.wixsite.com/home. Let's keep the conversation going! Craving early access to new episodes? Want to be the first to hear them fresh off the press? Head over to musicgoddessvault.substack.com and subscribe for FREE! Plus, for those who want to show some extra love, paid subscriptions are available for just $7 a month or $70 a year. Let's talk about Pagan dating. It's a topic with its ups and downs, as many of you probably know. I’ll share more after you hear from Flora Ware about Ostara, Maiden of Spring.
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Being single as a Pagan today is different from what it was 20 years ago. Back then, you wouldn’t dream of mentioning that you’re a witch on a first date. But nowadays, it’s more accepted. I think this shift has a lot to do with changing attitudes and the internet. Still, you’ll occasionally encounter some crazy reactions—I know I have. That said, Pagan dating sites exist, but they're essentially like any other dating platform. Ultimately, meeting someone in person, perhaps at a ritual or festival, is often more fruitful. Even with the allure of spells or divination, finding love still requires effort. You can't simply wish for your perfect partner to appear. It takes dedication and proactive steps. I'll go deeper into this topic after you listen to Belle Dame Sans Merci by Faun.
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Time for another Spirit Guide of the Week. I'm going to the Netherlands to talk about Nehalennia, a goddess of uncertain Celtic or Germanic origin. Primarily associated with wealth and commerce, she was particularly important to coastal communities. Her temple was a significant site of worship. Nehalennia is often depicted as a young woman sitting beside a big loyal dog, typically holding a basket filled with apples or bread, symbols of abundance. Her worship dates back to the second century BC, making her a significant figure in the region's history. Known as the goddess of wealth and commerce, Nehalennia was particularly important to the local tribe, who relied on the sea for their livelihoods. Her temple, a significant site of worship. Nehalennia’s shrine was discovered in 1970 by a fisherman in the North Sea in the Netherlands. And still being discussed among academics to this very day. She’s either a Celtic or Germanic goddess. Her origins are unknown. However, her temple was submerged in the North Sea until 1970. That is it for now. Stay tuned for another spirit guide of the week.
(21:09)
That was Avalon Rising with Do You Love an Apple? Paganism is a beautiful path, but finding love? Well, that's a universal quest. Whether you're casting spells or swiping right, we're all looking for connection. Let's talk about the challenges and triumphs of navigating the dating world as a modern pagan. But let's not forget the incredible rewards of finding that special someone who shares your beliefs. Imagine connecting with someone on a deep, spiritual level. Sharing rituals, celebrating the seasons together, and building a life based on shared values is truly magical. Of course, many of us find love with amazing partners who don't share our exact beliefs. It's about finding someone who respects your path, even if they don't fully understand it. It takes open-mindedness, communication, and a willingness to find common ground. Whether you're seeking a partner who shares your pagan path or are open to exploring a relationship with someone from a different spiritual background, it's essential to focus on finding someone who supports your personal growth and happiness. Open communication, mutual respect, and shared values are key to building a lasting connection. Instead of relying on magic to find love, let's focus on practical steps. Building self-confidence, expanding your social circle, and actively seeking opportunities to meet new people can significantly increase your chances of finding a compatible partner. Remember, finding love is a journey, not a destination. Be patient, kind to yourself, and open to new experiences. Whether you find your soulmate at a ritual or on a dating app, the most important thing is to stay true to yourself and enjoy the process. Have you had any experiences dating as a pagan? Share your thoughts and challenges in the comments below. The next song that I am going to play for you is With Love in Your Heart by Gayla Soldano
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Here's another dream symbol to interpret. These are the three: Journey, Jug, and Jumpsuit. Dreaming about a journey can symbolize financial gain, personal growth, or advancement. If you dream about a friend going on a journey, it could mean that good and positive changes are coming your way. Dreaming of the band Journey might suggest that their music holds personal significance or relevance to your current life. Seeing jugs in a dream might be connected to ideas of purity, restraint, or chastity. A dream of a milk-filled jug can symbolize nurturing qualities or inherent strength. Dreaming of an empty jug might suggests a sense of emptiness or incompleteness in your life. A broken or cracked jug in a dream might symbolize a breach of trust or betrayal. If you dream of wearing a jumpsuit, it could indicate a loss of self-control or a struggle to define yourself. Wearing a racing jumpsuit in a dream might signify feeling overwhelmed by a hectic lifestyle. Dreaming of wearing a skydiving jumpsuit might symbolize a feeling of losing direction or control in life. And wearing a prison jumpsuit in a dream might symbolize feeling trapped or restricted in a personal relationship or life circumstance. If you want a dream symbol to interpret and maybe have a dream symbol featured, I will mention the contact information at the end of this show. So keep dreaming.
(30:47)
The song that you just heard was by Norse Gael and the title is translated as “The Long Journey”. Before you tune out, I have a few surprises. You’re the boss! Want to pick an old episode you want to listen to again? Head to the show notes or scan the QR code on my blog to vote. This is your chance to check out the five choices. Voting is open all month long. Want to help shape the future of this podcast? Share your ideas for exclusive Patreon perks! Head to the show notes to fill out a quick questionnaire. Your input helps me create awesome rewards for my amazing Patrons. Want to help shape the future of this podcast? Share your ideas! Got suggestions for new episodes, spirit guides to cover, or dream symbols to explore? Fill out the questionnaire in the show notes or connect with me on social media. You can also message me through my blog or Substack. Your input is super valuable! Stay ahead of the curve! Sign up for my newsletter at musicgoddessvault.substack.com. It's the best way to get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox, so you'll never miss a beat. Be the first to hear the latest and greatest - subscribe today! To finish off on a high note, let's listen to Perfect Love by Alexian. Blessed be.
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